Monthly Archives: April 2013

Coffee Spots

A principle philosophy of supporting addicts in recovery is to only judge yourself and the actions you choose. While we love our addicts we cannot control their choices. Passing judgment on their decisions can quickly become a resentment towards them. … Continue reading

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Co-Dependent? Really? Me?

I heard the term,”co-dependent,” for the first time in college. I had to take these therapy classes as a punishment for throwing a raging keg’er in my dorm suite. The councilor gave me a book entitled something like,”Co-Dependent No More.” … Continue reading

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Flying High

Flying is a part of life. We just do it and are thankful for every safe take off and landing. It was a flight to Phoenix, AZ when I realized the depths of my husband’s fear. He was still heavy … Continue reading

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Loving An Addict

Someone, somewhere once stated,” you must endure the lows in order to appreciate the highs.” The connection between an addict and their co-dependent is all consuming. If allowed to run wild can become extremely destructive. In some ways as a … Continue reading

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